How Men Think:
The Insider's Guide

What every woman needs to know. Humorous relationship advice and eye-opening insight into the inner workings of the male mind by relationship coach, author, and Emmy winner David M. Matthews.

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Articles by David M. Matthews

Hubby Pays More Attention To TV Than To Wife

Hubby Pays More Attention To TV Than To Wife By David M. Matthews Published: December 4, 2017 Question: I have been married for nineteen years and I was wondering if you...

Change of Heart – Now I Want Him Back

Change of Heart - Now I Want Him Back By David M. Matthews Published: November 22, 2017 Question: My ex and I broke up several months ago after 5 years....

4 Dirty Little Secrets Men Are Keeping From You

4 Dirty Little Secrets Men Are Keeping From You By David M. Matthews Published: November 15, 2017 Although men are fairly simple creatures, there is still a side of us...

If He Cares, Why Doesn’t He Call?

If He Cares, Why Doesn't He Call? By David M. Matthews Published: November 8, 2017 In general, guys aren't great communicators. Once they tell you that they like you/love you/care...

Why Men Ask You Out

Why Men Ask You Out By David M. Matthews Published: November 1, 2017 Dating is a complicated ritual that most of us have engaged in at some point in our...

How Soon Should You Jump Into Bed?

How Soon Should You Jump Into Bed? By David M. Matthews Published: October 25, 2017 Question: My question is this…how long do you wait to sleep with a man…one month,...

When Men Say “I’ll Call You”

When Men Say "I'll Call You" By David M. Matthews Published: October 18, 2017 One thing you can usually depend on with men (other than leaving the toilet seat up),...

10 Things Men Like About Breasts

10 Things Men Like About Breasts By David M. Matthews Published: October 4, 2017 As you are well-aware, men’s love affair with the female breast goes back centuries, perhaps to...

What Your Guy Friends Are Really Thinking

What Your Guy Friends Are Really Thinking By David M. Matthews Published: If you are like many women today, in addition to numerous female friends, you also have (or did...

How Men Think: The Insider’s Guide